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What this technique does, is allow you to ‘frame’ the other person in a different light.It helps you to see them as a person,who was once small and powerless just like you. We often get caught up in the hype surrounding a person – they’re the CEO of a huge corporation, they’re a celebrity..whatever it is, it can lead us to thoughts that don’t assist us.(In fact, that actually happened to Al Capone.) Sometimes, the intimidating part comes from a person who gets a summons to the tax office and the person fears that they are in trouble and might be arrested for a tax violation.In this kind of story, it turns out the bureaucrat is a nice enough person who just wanted to clear up a minor problem and, seeing that the character is frightened, has to give some reassurances that nothing is wrong beyond that.Imagine yourself talking to the little child inside the intimidating person.Be careful with this though – I don’t mean you should put on a condescending voice and offer them a sweet!
This is especially odd when said characters handle Eldritch Abominations on a regular basis and are able to kill an army like it was nothing.Ask questions such as “and how is that going to work? They have, more often than not, adapted this behaviour to cover up their own insecurities.See intimidating people as telling you something non verbally – intimidating behaviour isn’t normal when someone isn’t being threatened or is not in fear.Every single one of us was a child once, fairly powerless and open to the rules, restrictions and attitudes of the ‘powerful’ adults around us.If you can tap into this energy/mindset, it might just give you the edge when dealing with intimidating people.
We automatically put ourselves on the bottom end of the seesaw.