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When a relationship crushes you and leaves you feeling paranoid, anxious, insecure, inadequate, and always on edge, just waiting for the other shoe to drop….
you’re cheating yourself out of having the immense benefits a good relationship can provide.
Never Want Someone Who Doesn’t Want You Sounds obvious, but sadly, it’s not!
When it comes to men and relationships, us gals can delude ourselves in some pretty impressive ways.
It’s a miserable feeling, one that can have lasting ramifications long after the relationship (inevitably) ends. You need to be your greatest ally in the world, you need to do what’s best for you and what will make you happy and help you reach your potential. If you “should” him, you’re basically telling him he’s a loser who can’t make you happy and this will not encourage him to try any harder. It causes resentment to brew and it immediately places the person you’re “shoulding” on the defensive.
If your relationship is sending you in the opposite direction, stop wasting your strength and energy on making it work and instead use those forces to walk away. Take the Word “Should” Out of Your Vocabulary If you’re gonna do anything, it should be to take the word should out of your vocabulary! Just think about all the times someone told you what you “should” do. Instead of focusing on what your partner doing right in the relationship and show appreciation for those things.
If you catch yourself obsessing over what to say to your guy, or how to act around him, stop and tell yourself: “I am the prize that needs to win over.” Becoming a thoroughly confident woman takes work and isn’t something that just happens.
[Read: 20 signs of attraction in the first conversation] Perhaps, you felt more aware of your own body, or you found yourself smiling so much your jaws hurt.
One of the biggest flirting signs you can notice in a flirty conversation is the widening of the eyes.
When a friend of yours is getting attracted to you, their eyes would be wide open and expressive through the entire conversation. Do you find yourself or your cute friend laughing and giggling throughout the conversation for the silliest of reasons?
These are all obvious flirting signs that we give away, even if we’re trying to be discreet or subtle about it.
Obvious flirting signs that count So the next time you’re having a conversation with someone attractive, watch out for these signs of flirting.
Okay, in all seriousness, the word should is very poisonous when it comes to relationships (“Always” and “Never” are tied for second). The more your man feels appreciated, the more he’ll want to do to make you happy.