Dating a paralyzed guy
“Dating Paraplegics the Ultimate Guide” is a great read for anyone dating. Discover the secrets to dating paraplegics and wheelchair users. False: Sex is not usually one of the things we talk about on a first date.
Pushy: I want to ask a wheelchair user out but I’m afraid I will scare them off. Be creative, “If you behave, I will let you take me out to dinner Friday night.” Most who feel the same way will be flattered. Personal Care Nurse: I don’t want to be a care nurse. I don’t want to help with personal care, help toilet shower and dress etc. Most men and women dating paraplegics do report a healthy active sex life.
False: You can tip them out but they can get back in quickly and heaven help you when they do.It is good to know how your wheelchair partner functions before that happens. No paraplegic likes having to poke a tube up their private to drain their bladder, but they don’t get much choice. Give it some time and you might get more used to the idea.If the catheter is in during sex, ask them about taking it out for sex.True: You may scare them off, so don’t hang around waiting for a relationship that will never happen. Those in long term relationships with paraplegics describe them as above average lovers. Paraplegics are physically active and hands on during the act of love making. They can’t feel it so they don’t enjoy sex or make love very often.
Some airlines allow a companion to fly free with any full fare paying wheelchair user.