Dating a girl who is taller than you
Frankly, I think that successful women holding out for more successful men is as counterproductive as wealthy men doing the same thing – which, as you might have notice, they don’t.
I would love your thoughts on whether women should continue to hold out for men who make more – with these two caveats:1) Please don’t accuse me of being sexist for making the observation that most women want a man to outearn them.
For a self-sufficient, high-earning man, a woman’s earning potential carries very little weight. Because we have always been taught that nobody is going to pay our way in life.
” Haven’t we evolved enough to true equality that it doesn’t matter who makes more as long as the couple as a unit is doing okay?It is a process that usually takes time and effort, but gives the best results, that last for the life time.It seems that extroverts always have it easier when it comes to conversations.It’s an observation, not a judgment.2) Please don’t accuse me of encouraging women to date deadbeat slackers with no money, no ambition and tons of credit card debt. Just as I say you can compromise on chemistry – from a 10 to a 7 – I’m simply wondering aloud why a woman with her own money can’t date a man who makes K, the exact same way a man with his own money can date a woman who makes K.I find many men are uncomfortable when they find out that I make more money than they do.
And that’s before you’ve considered kindness, compatibility, attraction, values, height, weight, age, humor, children, etc. We’re not looking at you to support us because we can support ourselves, so we’re free to choose whomever we want.